<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Kyle</title><link>/</link><description>Recent content on Kyle</description><generator>Hugo</generator><language>en-US</language><lastBuildDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2026 00:00:00 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>Actually Learning From Advice</title><link>/writing/actually-learning-from-advice/</link><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2026 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>/writing/actually-learning-from-advice/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;the most important thing i’ve internalized this year from many mistakes is &lt;strong&gt;abstract advice is always someone’s compressed experience.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;tldr: use advice as a framework to ask questions with the intent of removing ambiguity around the advice so you can learn what your unknown unknowns of reality&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;defining compressed experience as the hundreds of observations, failures, actions, and consequences that end up being compacted into a single sentence.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;the immediate problem is that nearly all advice ends up functionally useless because it isn’t presented in an actionable format.&lt;/p&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>